Description
Friendship is hard because everything is hard. This book examines social structures to demonstrate how people mend an unravelling social fabric.
Published by Fernwood Publishing, written by Sheer Spite founder Lee Arden!
Why is it hard to make and keep friends as an adult? Even if you finally find time to see each other, can you connect more deeply than just catching up over coffee? How many do you count as ride-or-die pals who’ll always show up with effervescent banter and deep conversation — your “chosen family?”
Widespread loneliness reflects a world of crappy jobs and unaffordable housing that makes it almost impossible to have close, interwoven friendships. A dwindling social safety net takes a toll on us and on our relationships. Particularly for queer people, friendships can be crucial relations of equality, constancy, and care. Still, we disappoint each other and fall into irreparable conflict.
A less lonely world is possible. Through interviews, research, and personal narrative, this book shows how people build tight connections despite living in the austere conditions of colonial capitalism — boldly weaving a new social fabric as this one unravels.
- Forthcoming September 2026
- ISBN: 9781773638263
- 254 pages
This is a preorder: you will receive the book once it publishes in September 2026. We recommend ordering it separately from any other items unless you don’t mind waiting until September to receive them.
